What's your "one thing"? This is one way I help NYT best-selling authors discover what they're most known for.

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You need to calm your nervous system to succeed in business.

If you’re a sensitive person, on any level, this will help you.

Let's first affirm the silent reality of life right now.

The world is a new level of crazy.

Your feelings aren't just made up.

Not all of what you feel is yours.

And until you dig deep enough to get to a place of home within yourself, you’ll always feel like you’re inauthentic.

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If you want to know who you are...

If you want to know what you’re here to do, what some people call destiny, purpose or a higher calling.

If you want to feel comfortable in your own skin and speak the truth, your wisdom, with ease.

And if you want to walk the walk and talk the talk….

You need to calm your nervous system.

We are living in highly stressful times where the threats are largely “unseen”.

We are multi-sensory beings with a minimum of 6 senses. Culturally this is rejected. This leads us to inevitably ignore the wisdom that intuition brings as well as its associated ailments.

In psychology and addiction circles, we like to call this denial. If we pretend it doesn't exist, it doesn't, right?

Wrong.

You cannot and will not function well, let alone thrive until you speak from a place of peace inside you.

Your "one thing" lives within peace.

You will not feel at home in yourself until you get to the heart of who you are. And then, believe in it enough to act on it everyday. Not as a chore but as a a light that simply shines.

Clients come to me because they want to know who they are, communicate their one thing to the world and navigate transitions in their businesses.

If you’re looking for your one thing, you are not going to find it by taking your current business circumstances and rearranging them.

You need to clear out the old energy in your life.

You need to calm yourself to a point of deep relaxation and trust so that you can let go and listen.

You need to find the safety you seek in outside systems within your own system, first.

This is strategy. The outcome is often that you know who you are and become your “one thing”.

Instead of telling the world who you are, you show them.

If you ignore your intuition as a legitimate sense and energetic body, similar to your hand except visible with different type of sight, you will ignore the very road to the outcome you seek.

No amount of money, fame, or culturally defined success will give you the freedom to be at home in yourself.

Your body.

To claim who you are as a silent knowing so strong that it guides you in all you do.

This is the work clients come to me for.

Reclaim who the f*ck they are,

Create the space to become it.

Chart the path forward.

And in the process, we find their one thing.

The strategy emerges.

The body breathes. And maybe for the first time, they see who they truly are.

Voice, power and ovaries in hand, it’s game time.

The healing is complete.

Heal.

Specifically, learn to access stillness within you. This is where your message lives.

Realize that the turbulence, wall, or static you feel is blocking your clarity is your next step.

It isn’t a mistake.

It’s a gift. It’s a puzzle. It’s an access point to what you seek.

Don’t be mad that the door is closed. Rejoice that you see the door and are now learning how to open it.

Amen and NAMASTE!

If I can be of service to you in some way, email your question to hello@hausoflala.com

Lalita

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Lalita Ballesteros